God helps us by giving us His light over a matter that we have been in darkness about. His light comes with understanding. Without understanding, we can miss our time of establishment.
It starts from a renewed mindset of self and of God. What do you think and know about yourself, and what does God think and know about you?
There must be unity between self and God over every matter concerning your life, and there will be a commanded blessing. Allow the Spirit of God to renew your mind to the mind of Christ.
Romans 12:2 And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what [is] that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.
PRAYER: Father, in the Name of Jesus, let it be done to me and my household according to your word, I subject my will to your will for my life, Amen.